Some stupid bitch hit my work truck from behind as I was changing lanes.She gets off yelling n screaming that I hit her. When in fact she hit me. I'm assuming she was following dangerously too close and not keeping her distance. How fucked am i?!!??????No damage was done to my truck. Her bumper fell off was scratched and dented on the side she hit me with. Exchanged info and no cops were called. Even though she was verbally harrasing/assaulting me. Causing a huge scene. While her kids were in the car. She was black.
>>31183568>No cops were calledMistake IMO. More witnesses to the event would've ensured she can't change the story later and try to sue you for non-existent bs.I hope you at least got pictures of the scene.
problem:I got a favourite game, that is owned by one developer. It's a unique game and there are no alternatives to this game. Whenever I engage someone in chat asking for help building/designing XYZ, they often troll me. The troll has proven themselves to have multiple friends, and that no matter who I talk to, regardless of tone or intent, that they're dedicated to harassing/trolling me persistently. Now, the reasonable solution would be to ignore them, but here are the issues that I currently have.1. The administrator has banned me from the game's "discord" and does not like me at all in the slightest bit, as he is probably involved with the troll himself. Following the initial ban reason, I broke rules, and he escalated to a ban right away for "we don't want you here stop yapping". Even though I haven't communicated with the admin or continue evading my ban to enter the comms server, the troll still proceeds to chase me no matter what server I join. 2. PVP mode is something that can be enabled, the troll persistently spawn-camps my plot before I can load any of my builds, obviously I can disable pvp mode but he'll still harass me in chat and via other methods. 3. The troll isn't singular, he's got multiple friends who'll also help chime in on trying to make me miserable, leaving me with no ability to block accounts, because even if I block them, they'll proceed to make new accounts or have someone else help them. I'm starting to get pretty miserable over this, and I've already began not playing as much, despite enjoying creating things in the game. I know that someone here's going to say "lol your soft just cope get a clue" but that's regardless of the point I'm making. I've also had to deal with other god awful trolls within other servers and games, such as a example server, where I got banned over "yapping" in off-topic, despite it being off-topic and me talking about things that were off-topic. I'll elaborate on what happened in the next post.
>>31183474He doesn't sound confrontational to me
>>31183474>>31183498ok but lets take me asking for help with PN (pronav) missile guidance as a example since I did that todayI asked in chat "Does anyone know pronav? I need help" and someone begins going "why is pronav so popular, there's a better way" so I ask him what is way is and he says "PD controllers"when I ask if I can have a copy of his controllers to reverse engineer and learn from them, he goes "no you got a big ego" despite me never getting angry at him and kindly asking, when I ask what he meant by "big ego" he just goes "stop arguing it won't make me give you them" this is the troll's behaviour and soon after he began luring his friends to harass me
>>31183519We're only getting your side of the story here.
>>31183534whatever why do I bother, I'm not dumping the game for privacy reasons. He's just adamant on trolling me anyways regardless of what I do to ruin my fun.
another thing that's really stressful is dealing with bansfor example I use the websites Furaffinity and F-List, I've already had to evade on Furaffinity once because they banned my main account, and then my second account got banned over a artist accusing me of things that I didn't do at all (namely "stalking) because I asked why he had time to go through his favourites but not reply back to me when his profile said he was free and open to chat, and he kept ghosting me for months until he replied that he was happy to chat. as for F-List I got dogpiled when I mentioned kemono.party and b8 because I kept trying to defend myself from a mob of extremely hostile people.I had to originally appeal for F-List which it got through, but the lead admin was super strict over my unban despite it being for spamming once in a channel. After the kemono.party dogpiling he didn't want to appeal me at all despite me doing nothing that broke rules, account's ban reason lists "illegal activities" which is bullshit as I mentioned kemono.party but didn't contribute to ripping artist assets or promote ripping artist assets, while the chat was also talking about controlled substances under US federal law.
We're all gonna make it guys keep your head in the game. :D
I hope you all make it, but appreciate what you have.
God i want to write a story about a ladyboy cult and have it be about the protagonists journey to becoming a man, despite having his manhood and even outward masculine appearence taken away from him.I guess it's a metaphor from my lived experience, how i've always felt that i had the agency of a woman, but i have no clue how to aproach this.I'm not a bad writer, don't like writing, i like the visual arts more, but with help i can manage.I don't know how to deal with this story, it feels like walking a fine line between "gay degeneracy" and actually having something to say, and i feel like i could never publish it under my own name or even a pen name i'd regularly use.I have talked to friends about it and told them general outlines even showed a few scenes, they liked it, one friend said that it would be the type of book he would read but never get caught reading. What does that mean?i don't have any sex scenes or anything egregeous, the closest to that is a scene where a character is forcefully taken by a soldier and killed in the other room, you know why.I feel this story so much thinking about it makes a fire burn in me i feel so much the need to make it but i do not know if i'd ever want to or if i could ever share it, or if the point will be entirely missed in all the modern drivel.In tbe broadest strokes it's my take on a scifi conquest of mexico type situation where the protagonist is a chosen holy eunuch of his fuckoff middle of nowhere town who is the one tasked with protecting the sky, the ladyboy eunuchs drink an alien tree sap that makes them see things, but it's got female hormones or something, women sieze and die when they drink it and the only viable candidates are castrated young boys.It's about being a sacrificial lamb, being forever part of the humiliation ritual. Not even having the agency to leave the sacred square where the temple is.Feels like of all time now is the exactly right and wrong point to do this.
i love him more than ive ever loved anyone. i think he loves me just as much and it scares me. im going to ruin him, i know it, but i cant bring myself to back off or try to get him to stop being so attached.
shit I had a good idea to motivate myself but all my motivation isn't sticking, I keep changing my mind
>been dating a girl for four years>two years ago I ask her if she's okay with having an open relationship because I want to sleep around again, I always heavily slept around prior to 2020>she says "I don't really want to, but if it's the only way to keep you, okay">I just run with that because I don't want to risk pursuing the subject further and have her clearly say no>and I kind of figure that her dislike towards the idea can't be *too* strong or else she would probably express that>gotten quite a few friends with benefits since then, as well as resumed sleeping with some of my previous fwbs>hear her sobbing to someone on Discord a few nights ago saying that the relationship's open status has always hurt her and that for almost the past year I've been neglecting her more and more in favor of other girls I'm seeingI feel like an asshole... if I return the relationship to being a normal monogamous relationship right now and never sleep with another girl again, can this relationship be saved? Or are her emotional scars permanent? I want to fully heal every last bit of pain I've caused her. I just wanted to see other people sometimes since I was always promiscuous prior to the relationship, but if an open relationship hurts her then I have no problem closing it. I had no idea I was causing her so much pain. I'm a caring enough person but sometimes I need things spelled out for me.
>>31180885Kek, retard.
>>31180885You fucked up desu. You should've dug to see if she's truly fine with an open relationship. You pretty much need to just apologize and talk to her about it. Pretty much just what >>31181037 said.
Thanks guys
>>31180885You're both very broken people. You are an asshole and she's a fool for sacrificing and bending over backwards just to keep you. You must have a huge dick or something. Together you are incel fuel and everything wrong with the state of relationships these days.
>>31183546the fuck nigga, he's an asshole because she didn't properly express her feeling and instead chose to let it eat away at her until she became the victim? NAWIt's a learning experience if anything.It's not OP's fault nor responsibility to fuckin reparent grown adults who are out in the dating world.
I feel that I am starting to slip down the incel path basically and want to avoid that. How do I actively stop such a mindset from affecting me though? At its most base level, I feel the incels might be right. If they say something like "You know most women are basically drowning in dating options and relationship options right?" It sounds insanely true to me because I basically see it everyday. I am 30 and it truly seems like nothing in my life will change unless I change it. A woman isn't going to fall into my lap. A man might basically fall into a womans lap though. Her part is to just say yes or no. It is lines of thinking like that which really hurt my anti-inceldom argument to myself. The bottom line in how I feel is that I can't even attempt to get in a relationship while most women get to just passively experience them and passively build these types of skills needed. Without me doing something desperate / retarded like walking up and autistically spazzing on people with conversation, I don't see my life changing if I were to do nothing. It would seem that opportunities in this realm of things don't just fall into a mans lap. If I actively do nothing, my relationship status will never change.Maybe I am wrong though. Maybe most women aren't really crawling with dating opportunities. I don't know what is the actual true. The amount of women I know who are in my type of situation(no relationship ever) is 0. However, I know many dudes in my boat. Not saying women like this don't exist but it truly seems to be very few women who don't have a relationship ever.
>>31183287Ok. What you're doing isn't working and is causing immense stress on your body and mind whether you realize it or not. You could try something new or psyche yourself out keep rotting
>>31183224It was with my 3rd gf who lasted throughout college. I'd done everything except true PIV sex. Dry humping through clothes where she came but i didnt, just hurt for me. Sucking her tits, handjobs, oral, but not true sex. So I am still technically pure.
>>31183204That's not true. Women do not have an easier time finding relationships.
>>31183029>while not losing sight of the fact that you like them (as people)Fucking lol
>>31183547Any girl 6/10 or higher has at least 30 suitors she's keeping in tow just in case, and she can go on tinder to get more and sex whenever she wants. You are right about the uggos though.
Should I come clean and tell my mom how fucked up my life is right now? She's under a ton of stress herself and I feel like being honest with her will crush her and in turn make my life worse as well. She doesn't do well with stress and is a highly anxious person.I live with her and I'm 32. My situation is pathetic, yes I know.
>>31183517if she's the way you're describing you probably shouldn't tell her
Are dating apps worth it as a 27-year-old 7/10 man? I get a lot of matches, but it's so much work to text, deal with flakes, figure out logistics, and then when you actually meet them they look less attractive than the photos, wear tons of makeup and often have shitty personalities. It definitely works for people post-college, but overall it feels like a humiliation ritual overall
>stats say like 80% of women want to be approached>approaching irl puts you ahead of like 99% of app users>men are unhappy on apps, give this a try>mass exodus of men from apps>some amount of men find success approaching irl>the void left by men leaving apps corrects the supply/demand imbalance on apps and even app approaching gets betterImagine, you could contribute to this
>>31183475where are good places to approach?
>>31183488Places where people do hobbies that have a good split of men/women. I always recommend rock climbing gyms. Filters unfit people (or at least people who have no desire to become fit), usually pretty evenly split, relatively young crowd.Avoid things that people show up to for a purpose, ie the gym or grocery store. They're more likely to want to get their business done and leave. The reason hobby places are good is people are already primed to have a good time and therefore will have a more positive feeling associated with your first impression.
>>31183506are there any other things besides rock climbing gyms you'd recommend? There's two in my area, so I'll give both a try every week but seems very few single girls do it, more like a couples date thing from the few times I've gone
>>31183520Things like gym classes or organized recreation like yoga or a co-ed league. Coffee shops or bars that have trivia nights or similar casual games.The actual silver bullet I'm kind of scared to share is volunteer work and civil activism like local election campaigning etc. For some reason women are very much overrepresented in those. They're long cons though, you're not going to meet someone and woo them straight away and if you only show up until they're dating you they'll be disappointed. But if you already like that kind of stuff, it's found me a lot of partners.
I lost my virginity to a 17 year old (legal aoc in my state and technically an adult because laws are weird). Is this something I should feel bad about or be ashamed of? She was 17 at the time and I was 22. Before you say anything, no, I was not posted up by the local high school hitting on the girls walking by. We met on discord and had known each other for a couple years or something. In the beginning she lied and said she was 18 (she was actually 15 or so). None of that mattered at the time because I'm not gonna fact check internet friends and I had not interest in being with her. We just talked occasionally and played games and did other internet friend shit together. This went on for a 2-3 years. I'm assuming she was crushing on me way before I even knew about it because it almost seems like she waited to turn 17 (aoc in our state) before she made any moves. Fast forward to 4 months ago, we both had developed deep feelings for each other. She admits that she lied and she was 17. Took time to think about it, decided to try to make it work. Some time later we meet up. All goes well, we still like each other and what not. Have sex.The entire time she's kinda sneaking around and lying to her parents and all. We pretty much couldn't have a relationship unless it was under wraps and it ended up not working out. This is probably as short as I can make this story.
My gf has scars under her tits that look like exact ones from boob jobs, she has pretty big tits too. She got uncomfortable when i asked her about it and I told her I'd never bring it up again I just wanted her to be honest. She insists that the scars are from tumors on each tits which I'm not sure I believe. How can I know for sure?
>>31183149I can't get butthurt and call her out on it unless I have 100% proof though
>>31183246But are they nice? Can't complain about a big chest if it looks and feels nice man.
>>31183383They look nice, feel a bit hard but I'm more concerned about her more than likely lying and ending up with health problems in future
you can instantly tell from how they feel and whether they pancake compress when she's on her back it's not some huge mystery
Post pics and videos of them bare on /soc/. Boob experts there will know.
I am taking a online remedial college math course and also going through the khan academy math curriculum. I'm currently in the early math section in khan academy and starting division in the college course. So far I have been getting 100% in every unit for both of the courses, except for one test where I got 80%, it was math word problems.I don't check my answers before I either submit them. I go through the questions quite quickly because I'm impatient. I have clear hand writingToday I did 32 mixed up arithmetic questions and 100 basic multiplication table questions and I got 3 of them wrong because I wrote different numbers than what the questions were on the screen. For one question I didn't finish it.I also calculated numbers I made up in my head like 866,777,666 x 66,666 or 284,361 x 287 and I managed to get both right. I don't know what to do.
getting about 1/10th of your problems wrong from sign errors or writing numbers down in the wrong order isn't a disease, that's just a fact of life. I'm doing calculus and still drop dxs and doing the next step in a problem before I've fully accounted for the present state of the problem because my brain doesn't want to stop going. those things will fuck you up no matter how far you go because your brain isn't a digital computer.there's people that know pi to one hundred places or whatever but that doesn't describe even like 90% of people who get As in college math. just keep studying the best you can and be proud of your effort
>>31183489Here is the mixed questions
And the multiplication
sure thing, here's my homework too, i get about as many misses as you do and in 2 weeks when school is out I'm about get an A or a B. just keep practicing and you'll be fine
but like just for a pretty smart girl. i just want to be really pretty with her and lead a beautiful life and i want us to lose our virginities to each other (sorry if that's too sexual :/) and be together until we die. what should i do? it seems like such an amazing life in my mind but could i even ever have that?
>>31183420i don't even watch anime
>>31183397You sound like a teenager.Anyhow, don't use hormones or that shit. Being a femboy is 90% health. Lower body workouts, cardio, low calorie diets, hair removal, and skin care. Genetics also plays a role in how feminine you can actually be, but so long as you actually put in effort to your health/body, it's achievable to a degree.If you want it, start working out, research hair removal and skincare, get a job/spend money on clothes you like, make a diet plan. Do the work. Dreams do not become real unless you put in the work.
>>31183478Semantics. You are still clearly a loser. Probably jerk off to Asian girls, don't really interact with women, not great looking, bad hygiene, etc. Whatever it is, you are clearly not someone a girl like the one you fantasize about would want.
You could a find a pretty & smart girl as a soft man but not as a femboy/tranny
Ok but why be a femboy and feel pretty together? Why crossdress?Sounds 100% like autogynephilia
Have any of you guys managed to fix your awkwardness, or is it just a forever type thing? Is it even worth fixing?
Bro, you're ALWAYS going to sound awkward if you dont talk confidently. You can say the dumbest shit ever, but if you say it out loud confidently, people wont care.
>>31180229>Have any of you guys managed to fix your awkwardnessYep. Not to be a schooler but I intentionally immersed myself by dorming at university despite living nearby. It took me about 4 years to get socially capable, starting from zero social skills (besides a corny to great sense of humor)But I was also developing alcoholism at the same time, so that was a factor.Now I am an extremely social goofball weirdo. I'm still occasionally awkward but in a fearless way. Like Brad Pitt picking up the gun in The Mexican. Someone pointed out that he is literally me in that scene: In a bar full of tense underworld Mexicans staring at him, he's just smiling casually and affably saying hey.
>>31180229>your awkwardnessI've learned being awkward is just a self-confidence and knowledge problem. If you don't have much experience talking to people or are knowledgeable enough to converse about common modern topics to people- yes you will feel awkward.>Is it even worth fixing?socializing is very important and can lead to many benefits in life if mastered. Like all things it is a skill learned.>Have any of you guys managed to fix I got over my social anxiety by forcing myself to talk to many new strangers in a month/week/day. I did it constantly everywhere when I was also learning how to speak better (foreigner here). You learn mannerisms, proper etiquette, voice tonality, facial expression, outward appearance and fashion. It's very extensive. Many YouTube videos about this now
>>31180229I'm just a naturally awkward person, but I embraced it and turned to humor to make people more comfortable around me. I'm still awkward and anxious, probably always will be, but there's a difference between awkward and off-putting and awkward but humorous. There's a comedic element to everything, even tragedy. Obviously know your setting and audience, and don't do things at wildly inappropriate moments (even if it might seem funny to do, just due to the juxtaposition or inappropriate nature), but make light of things more often than not, see the humor and express it. If you see the opportunity for a joke, go for it. If you can't make anyone else laugh, make yourself laugh. In its own way, that's a form of confidence too. You'll never be happy trying to be someone you're not, even if you try to emulate someone you idolize, so just become comfort being the type of person you are. If that person is awkward, then be awkward, but be confidently, comfortably awkward.
>>31181935You watched a lot of videos about this?which videos?
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of those even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard these days, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for men trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, who have given up, or who insist that there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can fuck off to.BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc...Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Books and Resources"Models": https://ufile.io/f/jrw9j (expired?)"No More Mr Niceguy": https://libgen.li/edition.php?id=143167290"Mystery Method": https://pastebin.com/cMHcY4dc (old pastebin)Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>3117311445 male, you are either 10/10 face and hard body or fat with resting bitch face. There are some women whose face is so fucking hot that it is hard to approach but not many. Like old school sports illustrated swim suit model. Or you just don't look friendly. Post books.
>>31182831Thanks, any advice on casting a wider net? I'm doing great at pulling good girls, which I'm not finding satisfying. What do I do to broaden my scope?
Is trying to get with a female coworker a bad idea or is that just a meme?
I met a girl on a dating app, but she lives in a different state. She stated she is planning to move to my state in the future, so I decided to keep the conversation going. We've been talking a lot recently, and I feel like she is into me. I even paused my dating account to solely focus on her - I know really retarded decision. But, I shared a lot about my life to her and I think we would really connect. However, today she's been kinda distant in texts, and I'm starting to get worried that she moved on or something I don't really know; she could just be busy or doing something else. But from my own personnel experience if I liked someone I would text back relatively quickly even if I was busy. I know it's probably my own anxiety and I tend to get attached to someone really easily. But, is there anyway I could stop worrying about her so much?
>>31183467No, if you both like each other just go for it. If you're in a "non-professional" job all the better. Obviously you should get to know her first and see if there is any real connection.
welp, my gf just left the house after finding out that ive been secretly smoking weed again. ive lied nearly every damn time ive tried to quit, just lighting up behind her back. ive apologized, promised to change, etc, and i feel cheap saying any of that shit again. how do i address this? with her? with myself? how do i kick this addiction?
>>31183279weed smokers are scum, you don't deserve your girlfriend and she deserves better than a waster like you. fag
>>31183411anyway, fix yourself, you idiot. this is indeed a backhanded helping hand. fuck you OP. Fuck you.
>>31183411who hurt you?
>>31183279>>31183308>why does she get to tell you what to do?yeah OP. She isn't turned off by the weed. She's turned off by your spineless cowardice. You should do what you like and forget what anyone else thinks of it. (Granted its a positive and doesn't hurt others). Look after yourself. If you like weed, so what? Now I would advise against weed- in my opnion is a waste of time and money- but I digress. You shouldn't let a woman dictate how you live your life. You let her walk all over you.
>>31183435Unwillingness to compromise is not a great way to keep a long term relationship.Also, depending on location, she might get in trouble if they live together and weed is found in their house.
Is it weird that I don't like going "out"? I like concerts and amusement parks (for the roller coasters) and most else just seems kinda lame? Underwhelming? Unprofessional? Also I don't like cities, they're always dirty and kinda trashy. Especially restaurants, I go with my parents and it's always overpriced and I almost always cook better food.I'd rather hang out with my friends and play cards, vidya, or just talk. Even study sometimes desu.
>>31182264I'm the same way but every now and then I like doing karaoke or going to he bookstore
Not even that weird, at least anymore or judging from my own personal experience. Likewise me and my friends like to go out for exactly concerts and conventions and most any other time where "normal" people would meet up at a restaurant or bar etc we'd rather just meet up at one of our houses and shoot the shitDon't misconstrue this as socialist/commie propaganda because I'm an ardent capitalist but our society is engineered to make people feel like they're missing out or need to consume more. As long as you see through the illusion and do things you enjoy rather than what's expected of you, you'll be fine
>>31182264Just make the time you spend alone worthwhile and you're fine.
>>31182264Around here it would be more weird if you _did_ enjoy going out.
